Hi all,
Well l know that some of you are going to say"I told you so "
But it really does look like a separation now
We tried,but after a month things were back to normal.
My husband wants the 24years old back that he married and after everything that we have been through that girl is no more and as much as l want my husband to stay with me l can not be that person.
He has said that he feels that the lady that l am today does not show him respect,love and admiration.
That he loved my warmth,softness and vulnerability that l use to have!!
None of that has gone,yes l have changed from that young girl,l had too,but l have not changed the amount of love that l have for him!!
I have accepted the many changes of character,physical appearance and attitude to life that has come with his illnesses and general older age and still love him to bits,but he can not accept any of mine.
He has told me that I need to change and accept that l need to change for him to stay!!
Well this time it's a no!!
I have send that l am not going to change and he needs to work out if he wants to stay with me the way l am,or leave!!
He is leaving to have a couple of months break to think about it.
Well l know that some of you are going to say"I told you so "
But it really does look like a separation now
We tried,but after a month things were back to normal.
My husband wants the 24years old back that he married and after everything that we have been through that girl is no more and as much as l want my husband to stay with me l can not be that person.
He has said that he feels that the lady that l am today does not show him respect,love and admiration.
That he loved my warmth,softness and vulnerability that l use to have!!
None of that has gone,yes l have changed from that young girl,l had too,but l have not changed the amount of love that l have for him!!
I have accepted the many changes of character,physical appearance and attitude to life that has come with his illnesses and general older age and still love him to bits,but he can not accept any of mine.
He has told me that I need to change and accept that l need to change for him to stay!!
Well this time it's a no!!
I have send that l am not going to change and he needs to work out if he wants to stay with me the way l am,or leave!!
He is leaving to have a couple of months break to think about it.