Hello this is my first post. I am very close to walking away from my marriage with my children. This sounds horrible doesnt it. Ive tried to support my husband after his diagnosis of bpd last year. But i got to work as many hours as possible he doesnt touch the housework all day just runs around after other people. He has absolutely no get up and go and bothered about supporting us financially i am currently trying my best for the family and training up in accountancy. Im at breaking point. Ive been told im selfish and it my fault if he hurts himself my minds going overtime. I have fear i wont cope with my children. Am i selfish to think he is dodging his responsibilities and im not sure how much more i can take. Whe hes having a good day hes lovely life is good i just dont know where to reach out im determind to support him the best i can but at the same time im reminded sometimes of a previous dv relationship i was in. Its all just a mess on a plus is hes amazing with kids
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