Bpd husband left us-desperate.
Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:25 am
My husband has been diagnosed with BPD but was formerly said to be Bipolar. He recently has become extremely bad and said I am making him ill and has left me and our boys 8 & 11. We are in total shock and devastation. I had been trying everything to help him and he is completely unemotional about it and how miserable I make him. The problem is he has been camping but now needs somewhere to live. He resents giving us money so I have to sort myself out to pay our mortgage but I need to find somewhere for him to go that isn't too expensive. He says his Mum wants him dead and he doesn't trust his siblings, so won't stay with them. He is more and more irrational and cruel to me. He definitely can't come back home, as I think I am done with him. It has felt torturous being with him for a while and had always been turbulent. Think he has said he want to splits about 50 times. I am not eating or sleeping, trying to deal with my kids devastation and terrified all the time. I don't know what to do or where to turn. I am broken. I need to get him living somewhere but it feels ridiculous talking to someone so unstable about them getting a flat or something. Any help would be appreciated.