Just wanted to rant
My husband has Bipolar which is very rapid cycling. He was on an antipsychotic called olanzapine which basically stops his nightmares and distressing thoughts, but found he was putting on lots of weight so changed to Quetiapine which is even worse. He has now been told by some tactless nurse that he is obese and must lose weight.
She wouldn't listen to the fact that he never had a weight problem before he started taking these tablets, just said it wasn't his meds causing the problem he just ate too much junk food, which is an absolute lie!!! I wish these so called professionals could think before they speak as my husband was so upset when he came back yesterday he said he felt suicidal. He feels ugly and disgusting. To be perfectly honest, he doesn't even look overweight.
My husband is very self conscious and keeps stopping his meds because of the weight gain which then makes his symptoms come back and he is either very down and depressed or manic and out of control. It says very clearly on his notes that he has a mental illness and she must surely as a nurse must be aware that his meds are well known for weight gain. She wouldn't listen to a word he said so he just stormed out almost in tears.
We have been trying to contact his care co-ordinator who then has tried to contact his Psychiatrist about changing his meds(we aren't allowed to contact the Psych direct) but he has gone away on holiday for a month and we can't see him for another 6 weeks.
I am just really worried that my husband will come off his meds so he won't be overweight, but I know he will go through hell as he needs them and will then start drinking excessively again.
Roll on march.






My husband has Bipolar which is very rapid cycling. He was on an antipsychotic called olanzapine which basically stops his nightmares and distressing thoughts, but found he was putting on lots of weight so changed to Quetiapine which is even worse. He has now been told by some tactless nurse that he is obese and must lose weight.
She wouldn't listen to the fact that he never had a weight problem before he started taking these tablets, just said it wasn't his meds causing the problem he just ate too much junk food, which is an absolute lie!!! I wish these so called professionals could think before they speak as my husband was so upset when he came back yesterday he said he felt suicidal. He feels ugly and disgusting. To be perfectly honest, he doesn't even look overweight.
My husband is very self conscious and keeps stopping his meds because of the weight gain which then makes his symptoms come back and he is either very down and depressed or manic and out of control. It says very clearly on his notes that he has a mental illness and she must surely as a nurse must be aware that his meds are well known for weight gain. She wouldn't listen to a word he said so he just stormed out almost in tears.
We have been trying to contact his care co-ordinator who then has tried to contact his Psychiatrist about changing his meds(we aren't allowed to contact the Psych direct) but he has gone away on holiday for a month and we can't see him for another 6 weeks.
I am just really worried that my husband will come off his meds so he won't be overweight, but I know he will go through hell as he needs them and will then start drinking excessively again.
Roll on march.
