I’m Robert and new to CarersUK and Jointly and currently care for my adopted daughter who has SEN learning since my adopting her in 1987 following my marriage to her mother who sadly passed 6 years ago. I manage well but have just got help from a good female married friend who comes in 3 times a week to shower her and wash her hair. My adopted daughter is 44 and gets on very well with this good female friend to whom I pay a small amount for each visit since she lives and works over 20 miles away but Im extremely grateful for her help and female friendship to my daughter. I’m 72 by the way. Robert.
Robert, my son was brain damaged at birth, now 40. I'm very worried by your post
When did your daughter last have a Needs Assessment from Social Services, and you, a Carers Assessment?
What benefits does she receive?
Who will care for her when you die?