Thank you all for your input, social services backed down today, the lady is not very happy as we complained everywhere we could, they did an assessment last week apparently, they got my mother to face time my sister, they counted that as including us in the assessment. My sister was on for 5 mins and only said hello as our mother does not like us talking about her needs she gets upset. Anyway they have reinstated her care package and are looking for another company. Thank heavens she can carry on in her own home for a bit longer I am so relived. The power of forums and help groups is enormous and what happened in the past when people did not know what they could and could not expect.
Let's face it, the lady from SSD isn't very happy as now her promotion prospects are damaged!!
Well done for sorting this out. Glad we could help.