by
pamr1 » Mon Mar 25, 2013 1:30 pm
just the continual manipulation by my mum really, and the many times per day phone calls from her saying she is going to kill herself. sometimes its the tablets, now she only has 2 or 3 paracetamol tablets there, sometimes its throw herself under the bus, and she does not go out except when i take her so the threats are not going to happen (hopefully), but she is so so unhappy. The short term memory thing makes life so much worse for her. i call around, we go out for a meal and then literally 5 mins after i have left she is on my mobile phone (how she can dial the number is a mistery to me. obviously she has it written down, but even so) saying i have not seen anybody all day. same thing when the crossroads lady has been, i can watch the clock and know what time the lady leaves and i know 5-10 mins the phone will go and its her saying how lonely and unhappy she is and she is going to take the tablets etc. it seems nothing i can do makes it any better. Social worker says that she is manipulating me. not sure about that, its easy for her to say it. even if she had a carer coming in every morning and evening she would still not remember they have been. there is the offer of a day centre place one day a week, but she will not agree to go even though she told the social worker she would. they are being great and holding the place open, but i am soon going to have to tell them to give it to somebody else. I know there are no answers, but feel so alone with it all. thanks for the hug. x