What a stupid social worker!
You have a RIGHT not to care any more. It's far far better to have a planned move out, a long period of what amounts to "shared" care while you son settles in and you make sure he has everything he needs, and staff can ask you about any concerns.
He's going to be a lot more lonely after you and your husband are gone, unless they start supporting him to have a new life asap. Does he attend any other services at all?
The social worker should have done a Carers Assessment for each of you, away from your son. Has this happened?
You have a RIGHT not to care any more. It's far far better to have a planned move out, a long period of what amounts to "shared" care while you son settles in and you make sure he has everything he needs, and staff can ask you about any concerns.
He's going to be a lot more lonely after you and your husband are gone, unless they start supporting him to have a new life asap. Does he attend any other services at all?
The social worker should have done a Carers Assessment for each of you, away from your son. Has this happened?