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Sun Dec 20, 2020 12:55 pm
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Melly1 » Sun Dec 20, 2020 12:55 pm
Ian_2007 wrote: ↑Sun Dec 20, 2020 7:49 am
Thanks nelly,iam in tier3,do go for walk now and then,the most annoying thing for me is,i would give the shirt of my back for anyone in past.(people pleaser that’s me!)i suppose the people I knew were fake friends(Covid 19 has made me realise that)the more you do for people ,the worse you get treat.used to love socialising(nites out with fake people.Covid 19 has flushed these people out melly.
Hi Ian,
Tier 3 is tough, (but the new tier 4 even tougher!) It's good you are getting out for walks.
Are there any local fitness walking groups near you? I Nordic walk once a week where I live, it gives me the chance to see real people and chat with them. Some I click with better than others. My friend also belongs to a walking group that walk in the local park. Also, these groups often have more women than men, so I reckon you would be very welcome!
Another idea might be to walk someone's dog (as a volunteer) or get one yourself - dog walking is a great way to meet people - so I'm told.
Whilst stuck in tier 3 you could start thinking about how you are going to meet more like minded people after this pandemic is over. It's often easier through a shared interest - sport/ evening classes / wine tasting / book club /astrology etc etc. Either restarting an old hobby or trying out a new one.
S is currently moaning loudly and it is taking a lot of will power not to shout at him.
Melly1