Got to love some families and how they act towards their own....
Completely out of the blue earlier today , mum got a call from one of my sisters instructing her ,, they are picking her up Friday to go out to a holiday cottage some of the family are at ..
mum said no thanks , if they are at the cottage and have been for nearly a week without contacting me , then it is clear i am not wanted.
my sister laughed and said rubbish ,,, you'r going , you'r just in a mood because he is with you ( meaning me )... mum said no , if they have been up at the cottage for nearly a week already it is clear they do not want me around. my sister then tried the guilt trip , and said whats changed you met them all the last time...
mums reply that was for my brother to scatter his ashes , that was diff.
my sister told mum well tough we are picking you up on Friday , mum yet again said NO you will not i am not wanted enjoy your self .
the real kick in the teeth this holiday cottage is less than 5 min drive from us.. infact if you were to remove all the trees at the golf course and around the Loch , you could actually see the holiday cottage they are staying at.
you might think it sounds a bit pathetic , but the last time they were all up my Auntie as good as ignored my mum but the rest all swore they would always always visit and it was great to meet me after so many years , and a few of the guys could go fishing , hiking wild camping. yet here they are at the holiday cottage and no one has been in touch , not even to mum on facebook saying they are coming up.
this has now caused mum to be stressed and so worked up she has smoked 40 cigs ,, ( had cut down to 12 a day thanks to vaping )
i am just so sick of the family treating mum like an animal at a safari park , come for a visit every once in a blue moon just to keep her happy knowing full well she has done nothing and rubbing in they have been here there and every bloody where and done this that and the next thing. and they have this amount of money. then leaving until the next visit which will be in time for christmas weather dependant.
but all the time knowing they dont need to care because hey he is there 24/7.
they like referring to me as "" he ""
Completely out of the blue earlier today , mum got a call from one of my sisters instructing her ,, they are picking her up Friday to go out to a holiday cottage some of the family are at ..
mum said no thanks , if they are at the cottage and have been for nearly a week without contacting me , then it is clear i am not wanted.
my sister laughed and said rubbish ,,, you'r going , you'r just in a mood because he is with you ( meaning me )... mum said no , if they have been up at the cottage for nearly a week already it is clear they do not want me around. my sister then tried the guilt trip , and said whats changed you met them all the last time...
mums reply that was for my brother to scatter his ashes , that was diff.
my sister told mum well tough we are picking you up on Friday , mum yet again said NO you will not i am not wanted enjoy your self .
the real kick in the teeth this holiday cottage is less than 5 min drive from us.. infact if you were to remove all the trees at the golf course and around the Loch , you could actually see the holiday cottage they are staying at.
you might think it sounds a bit pathetic , but the last time they were all up my Auntie as good as ignored my mum but the rest all swore they would always always visit and it was great to meet me after so many years , and a few of the guys could go fishing , hiking wild camping. yet here they are at the holiday cottage and no one has been in touch , not even to mum on facebook saying they are coming up.
this has now caused mum to be stressed and so worked up she has smoked 40 cigs ,, ( had cut down to 12 a day thanks to vaping )
i am just so sick of the family treating mum like an animal at a safari park , come for a visit every once in a blue moon just to keep her happy knowing full well she has done nothing and rubbing in they have been here there and every bloody where and done this that and the next thing. and they have this amount of money. then leaving until the next visit which will be in time for christmas weather dependant.
but all the time knowing they dont need to care because hey he is there 24/7.
they like referring to me as "" he ""