Hi sorry I didn’t know which forum to post in so apologies in advance if I got the wrong forum.
I am a carer for my partner who is bi polar and I have mental illness to.
My neighbours who are adjoining know we both have mental illness. Two of them work at my local doctors so should be more understanding etc .
Basically they are making my life hell . The man wrecked my brand new fence back in 2016 and got away with it through lying in court .his solicitor found out after the court case he had lied about the boundary being his.
Anyway you think it would stop but they carried on leaning heavy old panels up my fence twice told by police to remove them.blocking my car in.even got their neighbours involved and got them to park their van on my drive and come round threatening us. Police did nothing.
Then it seemed to calm down after their other neighbours moved. But the door slamming and banging about started to increase which I just put some background music on .
But it seems to have started up again leaning stuff up my fence, my front fence I even had set back from my boundary by just over a foot but they still leaning stuff up it. Like me they have a huge garden but continue to lean stuff up my fence .
I actually filmed the wife who works at my doctors leaning something heavy against my front fence.
My doctor is aware of what they are doing and done in the past.
Sending a solicitor letter would not work they act like they are above the law.
In fact it would make the situation worse.
My mental health is in tatters. I can’t sleep at night. When this first started the police did advise me not to enter into any conversation with them after they refused mediation twice.
This all started when they found out I had inherited enough money to buy my council house out right.
So basically it’s jealously driven.
Their old neighbours told me a few years before that if she bought something new they had to go out and buy the same thing . But what can I do ? I’m pretty sure he has contacts within the police as he always seemed to know before police arrived ie blocking my car in he would move his vechicles just before police arrived etc.
It’s getting so bad now I physically shook when filming the wife putting something heavy against my front fence . I got my phone out quick when I saw her near my fence so filmed her in the act so to speak.
Everyone agrees with me they are doing this on purpose so it’s not me being paranoid.
I am not in a position to move or I would. Can anyone offer me any advice please I’m at my wits end. Non of this what is going on bothers my partner.
I am a carer for my partner who is bi polar and I have mental illness to.
My neighbours who are adjoining know we both have mental illness. Two of them work at my local doctors so should be more understanding etc .
Basically they are making my life hell . The man wrecked my brand new fence back in 2016 and got away with it through lying in court .his solicitor found out after the court case he had lied about the boundary being his.
Anyway you think it would stop but they carried on leaning heavy old panels up my fence twice told by police to remove them.blocking my car in.even got their neighbours involved and got them to park their van on my drive and come round threatening us. Police did nothing.
Then it seemed to calm down after their other neighbours moved. But the door slamming and banging about started to increase which I just put some background music on .
But it seems to have started up again leaning stuff up my fence, my front fence I even had set back from my boundary by just over a foot but they still leaning stuff up it. Like me they have a huge garden but continue to lean stuff up my fence .
I actually filmed the wife who works at my doctors leaning something heavy against my front fence.
My doctor is aware of what they are doing and done in the past.
Sending a solicitor letter would not work they act like they are above the law.
In fact it would make the situation worse.
My mental health is in tatters. I can’t sleep at night. When this first started the police did advise me not to enter into any conversation with them after they refused mediation twice.
This all started when they found out I had inherited enough money to buy my council house out right.
So basically it’s jealously driven.
Their old neighbours told me a few years before that if she bought something new they had to go out and buy the same thing . But what can I do ? I’m pretty sure he has contacts within the police as he always seemed to know before police arrived ie blocking my car in he would move his vechicles just before police arrived etc.
It’s getting so bad now I physically shook when filming the wife putting something heavy against my front fence . I got my phone out quick when I saw her near my fence so filmed her in the act so to speak.
Everyone agrees with me they are doing this on purpose so it’s not me being paranoid.
I am not in a position to move or I would. Can anyone offer me any advice please I’m at my wits end. Non of this what is going on bothers my partner.