Father phone's his son who is home while the family are on holiday.
And asks how's the cat son tells him it's dead fathers say couldn't have not been so blunt you could have told me when i phoned the cat was on the roof and you were trying to get it down then on the second time i phoned I could be told it was on it's way down then on the third time i phoned that it had fell and died then it wouldn't have been such a shock son Say's i understand.

The father leaves it a few day's and phone's again this time asks his son how Grandma son tells him she's up on the roof.