violet I came across the ARR from a link on a support page on facebook, I found it interesting reading even though it is about alzheimers but alot of similarities with other types of dementia. so if it helps one carer it was worth sharing.
found this article on the ARR site
http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/20 ... entia.html
read the comments under the article aswell as they are very apt.