Hi Bowlingbun, Thanks for replying. Yes, I agree that in theory I have a choice about what I do, and I do try to make that choice by only going for one visit a day most days, keeping up a little job so that I can officially go somewhere else one day a week, and meet younger and more vibrant people, ...

Hi, I am new to the forum, and am one of 2 out of 4 sisters who provide daily care for our mum. She lives at home and we visit daily. My sister visits more often than that even, and I am the first to admit that I am the 'second' carer. My tasks usually involve visiting to listen to 'groundhog' conve...