Keep flagging up his medication issues (including community nurses issues) with his gp. Make it his/her problem! Make it clear to that without sedatives he is unmanageable to extent you fear for your safety. Hint at you are considering looking into 'sectioning' him. I think at some point you need ta...
Worth exploring Additional Voluntary Contributions to LA pension to try bring you under threshold?

Pensions experts on here can tell rest us if that would work or not. :-???
I see in your first post you advocate 'dumping' on doc/chillin out so I stand corrected on that point, Terry.
I can't agree with your strategy Terry. Not in my case anyway. I have become drain on State since it decided to prosecute me for losing the rag despite no physical violence being enacted. Cause same as you're reason for divorce of your first wife, Result was divorce. In those circumstances no way wa...
In answer to questions actually asked: 1) I informed DWP of permitted work (well under threshold) when I got my employee agreement, using online 'report a change in circumstances.' Given aggressive phone call after this from over zealous lackey which resulted in her putting phone down on me and thre...
It sounds like persuasion is never going to work. My view is that adaptations you speak about are desperately required. Get in touch with social work/OT and see if they will help with them, then get them in. Realistically what can you're mum do?! :-???
Sorry hear your situation Julie. First person I'd reach out to is your GP. They may have a 'listening service' within practise which is a chance to get things off your chest. Even if they don't should be able signpost you. Perhaps to counselling that has a pay by donation policy? It sounds like you ...
I found it challenging to maintain full-time employment with long distance caring especially when things went wrong. I was secondary carer for my former MIL and I actually found that easier (as was not having field 'crisis calls' rather escorting to appointments etc) But then I did have flexi-time w...
I know can get sensors with some telecare units (fall, bed, etc) but not sure if they could operate completely without pendant/bracelet alarm. :-???
So went to see the psychatrist today and basically my mum didn't do so well in tests. Due to her inability to retain information, shrink feels her capacity is now in question and will write to SW (and, on my request, the gp) with that view. He didn't pull any punches with reason for fronto-temporal ...