Dad's 90 & mum is 88. They are just old. Some dementia/comfusion but not all of the time.
My dad just won't go to the doctor at all. He's losing weight. He's not wanting to eat much at all. We do have carers for personal care. To me he appears to be very ill.

I don't think much can be done to be honest. It's just horrible to watch every day.
It's medical help that's refused.
I have two elderly parents.

I do what I can but my hands are tied.

I feel like I am just waiting for them to die.