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Thanks for the replies, but your not understanding the situation. It wasn't my Dads will, but a generous act that gave all four family members a quarter control over five years ago. We each own an equal quarter of the house, My relative mortgaged her quarter, which we all had to agree too. I stupidl...
Yes Mum owns a third, and I don't think idle is the right word, just wanting a relative dead or put into a home for personal financial gain, is there a word for that? The relative will happily take the third no matter what effects it has on Mum and I. If it means Mum going into a home against her wi...
Jenny Lucas absolutely hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you Jenny. In my situation my relative has a vested interest in the house Mum and I live in, Dad left it three ways. If Mum passes away, or goes into a home, my relative inherits a large amount of money, I'll be left with money too, but n...
Much like Bowlingbun, nothing over Christmas from my family. Not a fleeting visit or phone call and YES bitterness does build up. She is having a fantastic time with her family and kids while I'm sat in a room with my Mum. Every week that passes that my sister doesn't lift a finger, I become more bi...
NHS Hater, The comparison between a family member who gives their life to care for a beloved family member, quits a job and devotes day after day to help. TO A lazy family member, who does nothing other than the odd text. Randomly visits for 45 minutes every two months, in order to tell the devoted ...
Hi Guys, thanks for the support. I know exactly what my sister IS and what SHE will do if / when Mum passes.

I didn't mean to take the post from Sarah_1607 , I was just trying to show Sarah people are in similar positions and give some moral support. So lets get back to focusing and helping Sarah.
Hi Sarah, Maybe I'm lucky, but my GP makes flying visits on my Mum without me asking to check on her.. Your GP should not refuse to come out to a 95 year old to assess her drug needs, at the very least come out and check her up. Complain about your GP who is a lazy waste of space earning over £100,0...
Hi Sarah, Your story has really affected me, while it's not a dating site, I just want to give you a big hug! This is my Story:-) I'm full time carer for my Mum who is fully appreciative of the support I give, but can also be rude and nasty at times. She hasn't been eating or drinking properly for a...
Like many things in life a carers assessment seems like a postcode lottery. My social worker referred me without me even asking, although I'm still on the waiting list. As others have said your Council are in breach of rules, everyone who cares should be given a carers assessment, it's in your Counc...
I'm reaching the stage of desperation getting Mum to eat, now even getting her to drink is becoming a task. It's been going on for over two weeks, our GP is involved and says Mums latest stroke has taken away her "will" to eat, basically telling me I have to sit and watch Mum fade away in our home. ...