<t>Thanks Bowlingbun - I'll take a look at the DR book some time. I'm a bit distracted right now, organising a total refit of their bathroom. Last weekend I took all the old tiles off (the whole bathroom needs retiling). Now I'm in the process of buying/ordering the shower cubicle, along with new to...

Hi Tony, I have similar issues with my elderly parents so can sympathise with what you're going through. My father is 82 and has never been very keen on taking baths - even when he worked full time he only took 1 bath a week (although he did have a thorough wash morning and night too). My mother is ...

<t>Bowlingbun,<br/> <br/> I don't have power of attorney but luckily that's not an issue (yet). We did look into this a while back, but due to my father's dementia and drinking I'm not convinced any solicitor would sign off on a POA, because my father can't really follow complex conversations these ...

Wow - so many helpful replies already and such a warm welcome - thanks everybody! http://www.carersuk.org/images/icon_smile.gif You've given me so much food for thought I've had to make a list before I can reply properly. Minnie: "...best to just go along with most things" - yes indeed, I know exact...

<t>Hi Staten,<br/> Sounds like you have plenty of cause to whinge - you've certainly had a rough time of things over the past few years. I know what you mean about trying to keep positive so as not to drive friends away... you end up discussing your own situation less and less, which in turn leaves ...

Hi there, I'm new to this place and have been amazed by the wealth of knowledge and advice around here, on all aspects of caring. I thought I'd post my story in the hope that somebody may be able to offer some pointers. My parents are in their 80s and have been (unhappily) married for 56 years. They...