Why don't you make/buy/produce a special personal card. I know it might sound old fashioned in this day and age. I still send cards for differing occasions and people usual comment. How lovely what a nice surprise.

Does your daughter notice any patterns in her dairies. Your daughter can share information with you by giving her consent.

What ages are your children. What age is the one with health issues.
Do you keep a diary when these attacks episodes occur.

https://www.ageuk.org.uk/information-ad ... of-assets/

You may of read this if not might be useful.

Chris who has more knowledge will come along shortly.

https://www.which.co.uk/later-life-care ... zsg4j2q80m

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-ca ... /homecare/

Hi & Welcome

Are you still living abroad?

What age is your daughter?

no definitive test for Parkinson’s, For quite a few conditions. I've been searching for at least five years. Always get told well you are a carer.

Scream!

https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/blog/guil ... ings-carer

Have a read it will outline what we are saying.

Although it's attached to Alzhiemers UK it so relates to all carers.

I think you need to look at the situation from another angle. The decision was made at the time on the facts at that time. Things do change and when we have space to think. Our minds start to play tricks we have more thinking space. Your mother may have got water infections etc. Even if she had been...

I'm not really sure what you can ready do that hasn't been done already. As Chris has stated look at vulnerable adult safeguarding legislation. You will need evidence to get any more involvement by SS. At least your parents are together albeit not in the circumstances you desire. No one can force yo...