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Firstly, I think the kitchen cupboards need to be decluttered. Only need the basic if your parents will not be cooking. Or unlikely to cook in the future get rid of the dozens of oven dishes. And all the crockery they had for years. See what they can actually handle. I got rid of all the large dinne...

Hi Jackie & welcome You are not alone on how you feel. I think a lot of us what just a different routine. I sometimes use to moan about doing the same things each week. But how I would like that back right now. I want to visit the second hand venue and like bowlingbun charity shop visits. A cappucci...

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Hi & welcome Lisa Do I assume medication as been investigated. And has a urine infection sample been done. Has there been any discussion of an overactive bladder. There are a multi possible conditions ... https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/urinary-incontinence/treatment/ https://www.bladderandbowel.org/n...

Copy of care plan - yes you can. Talk to PALS at the hospital. https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/hospitals/what-is-pals-patient-advice-and-liaison-service/ https://caretobedifferent.co.uk/need-help-getting-copies-of-your-relatives-care-home-records/ For your second question. Sorry I am not able to loc...

Sounds more than sensible to me. The problem all along was under estimating the numbers of unpaid carers. Counting on just the carers who are in receipt of carers allowance. And not having a computer program for a tick box for carers.

I can see why you would feel the system of help hasn't been there for you.

But I would still like has been said. Follow up on a carers assessment for you.

This could be a potential gateway for funding your required counselling.

Hi & welcome Karen What a lot you have on your plate. Is there reasons you have not seek support for yourself and your children. As there is support if you are open to excepting it. Getting help for all of you will help as a family. There is access to a needs assessment. And a carers assessment wher...