Hi Sajehar,

It's great to hear from you again. Pain about the new trees. What kind of tree was the special tree? Was it a camellia?
do you have to plant these trees yourself? Good luck with it!.

The Essential Family Guide to Caring for Older People, by Deborah Stone. This book came out in November 2019 and I happened across it. You can look into a few pages on the amazon website:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Essential-Family-Guide-Caring-People/dp/1472965434/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 I...

Hi Paul, I am an ex-carer and didn't have your situation. I am so sorry for your situation. Even before your mother was ill, the cladding service charges have been on the news and it must be desperate. Could you manage to keep working full-time if you had carers to visit your mother? I know that mig...

Faye, I hope someone with more experience than me comes to advise you soon. I have not read all of your messages but I know it is an ongoing saga. I am an excarer and have not been in your situation. My feeling is that you cannot possibly pay or be made to pay the top-up. You personally are not liab...

The problem is that if you have carers coming in, it's good to have meals that can be microwaved from frozen. Carers won't think to defrost a meal the day before.

Ah yes. We didn't use them for long.

No, I didn't think you did and I didn't think we were talking about your mother. I just wanted to emphasize my opinion of Wiltshire Farm Foods. The very name is suspicious.

[/quoteDo we assume there is a dislike to marks and waitrose meals If you have carers in it's good to have things that you can microwave from frozen. M&S definitely have things you can freeze, but they don't give advice on how to microwave from frozen. [/quoteElderly people gradually lose their sen...

Hi, We had a thread on this. https://www.carersuk.org/forum/support-and-advice/all-about-caring/wiltshire-farm-foods-38666?hilit=Wiltshire Most people seem to like Wiltshire Farm Foods but my brother didn't and I could see his point. I recommend Cook! who apparently do deliver to the door but they a...

I agree that you might contact the probate office to see if they can help and AGE UK about the renting out. But I am wondering why this arrangement was made and what the purpose of the trust was, and who the beneficiary or beneficiaries of the trust are. I would think you need to know that, and I wo...