I used to do part time care work -domicilliary

Hi Sallwilldoit, I have sent you a PM

Contact Adult Social Services and raise a safeguarding concern. You can ask not to be drawn into it so your father won't blame you for any consequences.

Great tip BB

Ah your dream brought back memories of Sunsilk shampoo advertised on Radio Luxemberg. I remember my first bottle of "real " grown up shampoo was Peach Sunsilk and I can still see the bottle now! I spotted the radio in a museum I visited earlier this year, a large bush radio about 2 feet long and 10 ...

I thought you could still travel for purposes of care whatever tier you are in and the bubble bit is for those who just live alone?

Hi Maureen I am a little out of date with my knowledge and I have been out of the family care loop for 3 years now but whilst I looked after Dad I had third party access to his bank account and he allowed me to trf his Attendance Allowance to myself as principal carer. I dare say the rules have tigh...

Sorry I didn't know the full background.

Best thing to do is to ask your friend how you can help and what she would find useful. When you are caring for someone with dementia the last thing you need to add your load is well meaning comments and advice from other people. You could also take a look at the Alzheimers Website - they have loads...