I have just come across this thread. I co-cared my Mum for 3 years until she died aged 96 three and a half years ago. The effect of her loss has not left me but I now have my 92 year old father to care for. He started going down hill directly after Mums death. I sometimes wonder how long I can carry...
Thank you for your replies. She had a 5 hour op yesterday andis back in critical care, the sister on the ward is concerned about her mental health and as they did a ct scan of her head on Monday when admitted she is going to get the doc to look at it. We have been in this morning and she is in a ver...
Hi I have rejoined this group as my caring situation is changing, I have been caring for my elderly Mum for well over 2 years, in which time she has become more immobile and confused. She has always refused medical intervention and has a fear of hospitals. She stumbled on Monday and is now in hospit...