Thanks for your advice, Jenny. Unfortunately it is not that straightforward. My FIL went to a home for respite when MIL had op. He absolutely hated it and refused to stay for the whole two weeks. MIL have in and let him come home (he could travel to and fro on his mobility scooter). No way would he ...
I sympathize...
Please see a new thread I have just started about caring for multiple people - as well as my parents I also care for my in-laws. Both myself and my husband are only children....
Angela