Hi Thank you both for your wise words. Now I have started to focus on my own well being I feel so much better. He has started therapy, I had to laugh when he informed me that his first task was to forget about anything in the past - really!! Is that physically possible I think not!!! My reaction was...
Hi My husband of 34 years has recently been diagnosed with BPD. I am struggling with it as he is a blamer and takes no responsibility for his actions or how much he hurts my feelings with his blamimg and negativity. I feel I should walk away alot of the time but then i think about what we have worke...