<t>ive not long turned 30, been a carer since i was 21,, <br/> i wouldnt know wot other people do in their 20s' but i feel i got the "rubbish" decade sort of over and done with<br/> <br/> i started my 30s' with knowledge and strength and i feel ready to just enjoy life.. even the surgeons appt 2moz ...