Thank you for replying. I am sorry you feel there is no way out. When my daughter takes her medication we seem to have a reprieve and things settle for a while, but I am always waiting for the next thing. I have read that it can get better as they get older. I blame the large amount of drugs she too...

Hi, I have the same problem as you, an adult daughter diagnosed this year with BPD . Self harming, drug abuse, a suicide attempt just before Christmas and I don't know how to cope. She blames her past and me (like you, her recollection is very unrecognisable to my memories). I left her dad when she ...