Thank you Bowlingbun. I just need to get some perspective! Mum lives alone in a her own bungalow, can still manage to wash dress and feed herself and put a ready meal in oven, but she has chronic anxiety and everyday she says I feel awful, she is also forgets names and repeats constantly . She has n...

My name is Elaine and I am 65 caring for my mum who will be 90 in January . I currently work for NHS but will be retiring next year as mum seems to be getting more needy, currently my husband who has been retired 10years helps care for her while I am at work. My issue is I feel resentful at giving u...