Hi Loobers Our situation very similar, Dad living with my husband and I for past 4 years. Tomorrow my sister and I are visiting a nearby residential home for a chat/tea with Dad with a view for respite care. The guilt is horrendous, but I have a cancer op coming up (it’s a big one) and will be away ...

Hi, I’m new to Forum and also a 66 year old carer for my 94 year old father who lives with us, we converted the house 4 years ago. My sister (who is single) and I share the care of Dad at our home. My husband has had enough of our care situation and wants to get on with our retirement, our home is n...