Thanks so much for your reply. The care home posted but now emails the letters to me. They like to be open and honest and I suppose caring. I think maybe I just will not open them in future. However, that makes me feel guilty. I am also unsure as to what dementia is. She does not seem to have the sy...

Hi another Joan here and I have just the same problems. The virus is not helping. Mum just cannot understand that with a disabled husband and us both well into retirement age we cannot look after her. Mum is 94 and I am 69. I get so fed up with the many of letters she sends me each day moaning and s...