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bowlingbun wrote:
Wed Dec 12, 2018 5:54 am
Thank goodness that is over.
I just wanted to check that you have checked to see if they eligible for Attendance Allowance?
Hi
Yes thank you both mum and dad get this, again thanks for your help and advice. I hope you and your family have a great Xmas.
Thank you all so much, all of your comments and support has been extremely reassuring and helpful. What a great resource this forum is, so pleased I found it. The meeting went ahead today with Safegaurding leed, SS and SS leed, nurse practitioner, home manager, home senior, my sister, myself, mum, d...
Feeling very anxious about the safegaurding meeting tomorrow. I believe it is to talk about mum and dad wanting to go 200 miles back to their home town, although that's not what mum and dad are telling me. This is the whole problem, they seem to be telling me one thing and SS something else. When th...
bowlingbun wrote:
Sat Dec 08, 2018 5:55 pm
I have 40 years experience of dealing with accounts. From my experiences, social workers can't even understand money records for £100, so you will have a far greater understanding than them
At least you made me laugh.
Thanks again one and all. Apparently SS have been asking dad what has happened to the money from the house sale. He told them he does not know and to ask me. I understand where SS are coming from as they don't know me, they don't know that I am honest. Talking to dad today I think he had told them t...
Hi Jenny You have reassured me and at my low point that's what I needed. So pleased I found this site you are all extremely helpful. I will attend the meeting on Tuesday as I do not want them to interpret me not going as not being interested. I will not disclose mum and dads assets after your advice...
Many thanks for all of your useful replies. I agree with you and now I am wondering if the main reason behind all this is that Social Services are worried they will have to pick up all the funding once all the money from the house has been spent on care home fees. I am invited to a Safeguarding meet...
Hi and thank you for taking the time to reply. I am retired with limited savings I can't afford to seek advice from a SPECIALIST solicitor. I have had a NHS Continuing Healthcare Checklist Carried out three weeks ago where mum and dad are now. I wish I had not done so as it was because of this socia...
Hi My parents lived at home 160 miles from myself and 130 miles from my sister. Recently we moved mum who is 88 and dad who is 87 to a really nice residential home 10 minuets from my home. Over the last four months I traveled 7000 miles back and to taking my parents for appointments, visiting each o...