Should I return to caring as I am a vulnerable person?

[Honey Badger]

Ok, that is utterly unacceptable

With the utmost respect as this is still your sister and family member, she has no right whatsoever to unload whatever chip she has on her shoulder on you. Especially not you. If the attitude is still like this after several months apart then all the more reason to consider the previously discussed course of action. Maybe in time the attitude will change as she learns (in solitude) to appreciate just how much you have sacrificed to help her

My late grandmother was a bit like that. Loved her to bits.. but she would turn the extended family (dotted around the country and cross-continent) against those of us that lived nearby especially your humble poster, and as I have filtering issues when it comes to telling people what I think about them or the way they are behaving you can imagine how that worked out

You deserve a life of your own and have the right to one, bit of a cliche coming from the likes of us with the situations we are in but still

Best wishes

Slave mostly, put upon, spoken to like dirt at times, expected to come running for the smallest things. It can be so frustrating. It's good to know I'm not alone.

[Lynne _2007]

Thank you all for your advice and replies. I have decided I need to get a job and get back into the workplace, for my own sanity if nothing else. Stay safe everyone x

[bowlingbun]

Agreed, get a job and live the best life you can.