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Mon Feb 08, 2021 11:04 am
melly 1 / pet66
thankyou for all your help and advice , sorry to say anxiety , depression etc has been there since 1996 i have tried health in mind 3 times they cant help / they tried to send me to ats no help , wellbeing cant help , care for the carers say possible ptsd so they are going back to health in mind if not they would try and send me to Department of Psychiatry through asc as every time i try and get help the door is shut in my face ,
it all started in 1996 after we had our first baby and the disbeliving midwife and that my wife gave up baby wih out telling me but i dont blame my wife i blame the proffessionals involved at the time since then i have had problems with every proffessional that i have come across .
with masks that we use they are the ones that you can pull tight behind your ears but steam up etc not really sure which ones are more breathable or is that a good idea or not with different strains of covid about .
i was a wheel chair user and trying to use my own legs to support us both including the dog but i am in alot of pain i have been on morphine for 20 yrs was told to stop it tried different pain killers dont help at the moment i am on pregablin dont help
some days i wish i wanted to give up as my wife dont help around the house etc just lays down or play pc game for hrs on end
at the moment i have pain left hand from wrist into hand , pain in hips and across bottom of back , i can end up with chest pain taken up hospital not heart but pain is my back , there has been times when i cant cope as a husband and a carer .
thanks take care