flower63 wrote:This is getting rather personal but its about being "intimate". Feel a bit coerced but understand there's so little pleasure in his life.
My carees are my daughter and my mum so I have no personal experience but can I suggest you raise this question as a topic of it's own? Perhaps in one of the members only forums such as share your life or carers health issues.
I know that the topic of sex in a relationship where there have been big physical changes has been raised here before as I remember reading it. Try not to be embarrassed as I'm sure there will be someone who can give you some advice, especially as you are feeling a bit coerced.
This is the forum for carers and their problems after all.