Update from a while ago

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Update from a while ago

Postby Brian2 » Mon Feb 07, 2011 10:18 pm

Hello everyone.
It's been a while since I made an entry on here so I hope you remember me. I had been my Mum's carer for four years and have had some great advice, all taken and mostly successful. Thank you all for you contributions. Mum went into a home in July last year in Beckenham, Kent, leaving me up the creek without a paddle really, as I was only living with Mum whilst she was there. When she left, I was given my marching orders. I was given a month to find somewhere, but alas I didn't, so the very nice man at the Housing Association gave me a temporary contract instead of the tenancy and did my search for me. My months notice stretched to October 22nd, when my housing manager made me an offer of a studio flat in Penge, SE London. I was chauffered the eight miles there and back, and as it was only a mile away from where Mum now lives, I accepted it. That was not the end of my good fortune either. The Housing Manager arranged and funded my move without me lifting a finger or paying a penny. Some of you may remember the problems I was having getting services for Mum and lots of other things that I have forgotten, but I am now settled in my flat, still unemployed, but it shows to never give up hope. You really don't know what is around the corner. Good luck everyone. Take care, Brian
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Postby Lazydaisy » Mon Feb 07, 2011 10:21 pm

Pleased to see that you have had some support,and it sounds as though you are able to see your Mum regularly. Sounds as though your fortunes are changing.
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Postby no1mum » Mon Feb 07, 2011 10:33 pm

It's lovely to hear your good news. Thank you for updating us.
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Postby rosemary » Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:47 am

Thanks for keeping us posted Brian. Good luck

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Postby Scally » Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:51 am

Thanks for the news. How has your "Dolly Daydream" taken to her new situation?
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Postby Myrtle » Tue Feb 08, 2011 6:27 pm

That is lovely to hear Brian :D
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Postby paul stephens » Tue Feb 08, 2011 7:04 pm

so pleased for you and how well it has all come out in the end
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Postby poppett » Mon Feb 14, 2011 1:43 pm

So pleased you have found a new convenient home for yourself.

There are a few good folks out there willing to go the extra mile for those in genuine need.

Good luck,

Take care
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