unpaid carer for over a decade, faced with a dnr at a & e , ifs and buts ,I and you cannot turn back time, the so called "services", took her from me, mistakes were made, the nhs said to me , " it was her time " I blame myself , even though I am not to blame, it was a mercy decision " that is CARERS...
I used to give my girlfriend, lemon squash and also cranberry juice ,

as well as bladder washouts with optiflo g , good luck x
I used conotrane cream £5 for 5oog at the chemist lovely stuff and duoderm plasters or similar .......... your catheter has bypassed urine from the side of the balloon, this happens , its common, nothing to worry about , as long as you use pads/nappies as well , as urine increases bedsore size rapid...
you must flush catheters out with optiflo g , order some at charter healthcare delivery is 14 days approx, apply cream and silicon plasters if bedsores get bad a 10mm syringe on the single check valve,will release the water out of the catheter balloon , however you need a district nurse to remove it...